Most of the year, San Francisco is a city you move through. You take the hills for granted. You stop noticing the fog. Then December arrives, and for about four weeks the whole place dresses up – and the best of it isn’t the tree in Union Square. It’s a two-night cocktail play inside a church, a cathedral strung with 17,000 origami cranes, string quartets by candlelight, Pink Martini and the Symphony for one evening only. The stuff you have to live here to know about. Here’s what we’d actually put on the calendar this year, with a link to each.

Book these before they go

Pink Martini with the San Francisco Symphony When: December 2, one night only · Where: Davies Symphony Hall, Civic Center · Cost: Ticketed The band’s lush, multilingual holiday set backed by a full symphony for a single evening. One of the most elegant nights on the December calendar, and when it’s gone, it’s gone. 

A Christmas Carol Cocktail Experience When: One weekend only, mid-December (21+) · Where: St. Francis’ Episcopal Church · Cost: From ~$58 Dickens’ ghost story staged over 90 minutes as a four-part craft cocktail tasting inside a historic church – a custom drink for Past, Present, and Future. Costumes encouraged, seating strictly limited, two nights. 

Banksy: Limitless When: Opens early December, runs into spring · Where: 150 Powell Street, Downtown · Cost: From ~$25 The street artist’s first San Francisco show: 250-plus works plus walk-in installations, right on Powell Street. New this year and built to be photographed – the rare downtown opening that actually pulls a crowd. 

Candlelight: Holiday Concerts When: Select evenings through December · Where: Intimate venues around the city · Cost: Ticketed String quartets playing Vivaldi, Tchaikovsky, and holiday favorites in rooms lit by hundreds of candles. Quietly one of the most elegant – and most giftable – nights of the season. 

Ballet of Lights: The Sleeping Beauty When: December 5, one night · Where: Brava Theater Center, 2781 24th St, Mission · Cost: Ticketed Tchaikovsky’s ballet danced in LED-lit costumes that turn the whole stage into moving light. One of the most unusual performances of the season, and gone after a single night. 

Only in San Francisco

Kung Pao Kosher Comedy When: Around Christmas (two shows a day) · Where: Imperial Palace, Chinatown · Cost: Ticketed Jewish stand-up in a Chinatown restaurant on Christmas, running since the early 1990s, with Yiddish proverbs tucked into the fortune cookies. There is no other city where this would make sense. 

A Very Alyssa Christmas When: December 20 · Where: The Castro Theatre, 429 Castro St · Cost: Ticketed Drag Race favorite Alyssa Edwards brings a holiday show to the newly restored Castro Theatre – a reason to see the landmark lit back up, and exactly the kind of night the neighborhood does best. 

Out in the festive city

Holiday shopping on the avenues Where: Fillmore, Divisadero, and Clement Streets Skip the mall. The gifts people actually keep come from the neighborhood shops – Nest on Fillmore for its famous holiday windows and vintage finds, Rare Device on Divisadero and Park Life on Clement for art and design, post.script in Pacific Heights for cards and ornaments. An afternoon of it, coffee in between, is the most San Francisco way to shop the season. 

Union Square at the holidays When: Tree and menorah through the season; Winter Walk mid-December · Where: Union Square · Cost: Free Yes, the 83-foot Macy’s tree – but the better reason to go is the Winter Walk, when Stockton Street closes to cars and fills with vendors, food, and music, and the nightly lighting of the 25-foot Bill Graham Menorah through Hanukkah. The downtown holiday scene at its liveliest after dark. 

SF Lighted Boat Parade When: December 12 · Where: Along the waterfront – Pier 39, Crissy Field, Marina Green · Cost: Free Dozens of boats strung with Christmas lights sail the bay after dark, a tradition since 1994. Bundle up, find a spot on the Embarcadero, and watch the harbor glow. 

Light up the dark

Let’s Glow SF When: About ten nights in early December, nightly 5:30-10 PM · Where: Downtown, around the Ferry Building · Cost: Free The largest holiday projection-mapping festival in the country turns downtown towers into enormous animated canvases. Free, drop-in, gone in about ten nights. Go on a clear evening and walk it. 

Lightscape When: Nightly into early January · Where: SF Botanical Garden, Golden Gate Park · Cost: Ticketed A mile-long trail through more than a million lights. Timed entry, sells out on weekends, so aim for a weeknight. 

The classic San Francisco Christmas

Grace Cathedral Christmas When: Throughout December · Where: Grace Cathedral, 1100 California St, Nob Hill · Cost: Free to ticketed 

The season at its most beautiful, on the hill. The World Tree of Hope lights on December 7, strung with more than 17,000 handmade origami cranes that carry people’s wishes. Through the month: A Cathedral Christmas with the Choir of Men and Boys and full orchestra, Handel’s Messiah by the American Bach Soloists, and candlelit carol services on Christmas Eve. 

The Fairmont Gingerbread House When: Through early January · Where: Fairmont San Francisco, 950 Mason St, Nob Hill · Cost: Free to view A two-story house built from thousands of real gingerbread bricks and pounds of See’s Candies, assembled every year since the 1970s. Take the California Street cable car up and walk into the lobby – the best free spectacle on Nob Hill. 

Ghirardelli Square When: Tree lighting November 27; festive atmosphere throughout December · Where: 900 North Point St, Fisherman’s Wharf · Cost: Free to explore

The waterfront landmark kicks off the season with Santa and a performance by the San Francisco Boys Chorus on November 27. Come December, the historic square is worth a visit for its festive setting, chocolate shops, and beautiful bayfront location.

SF Ballet’s Nutcracker When: Early December through late December · Where: War Memorial Opera House, 301 Van Ness Ave · Cost: Ticketed San Francisco staged the first full-length Nutcracker in the United States, in 1944. Ours is the original, and a sensory-friendly performance runs late in the season. 

One more thing

Every one of these sits within reach of a neighborhood someone calls home. We don’t just work in these neighborhoods – we live in them, which is why we know where the best holiday windows are, and which cathedral to be in on a cold December night.

If you’re weighing a move, or just want to know what the season really feels like from inside one of these neighborhoods, we’re always glad to talk it through. No pressure, just a conversation.

Sources: Event details are drawn from official organizers and venues, including the San Francisco Symphony, SF Ballet, Grace Cathedral, Downtown SF, Golden Gate Park, and the Fairmont San Francisco, alongside local event listings from Fever and Secret San Francisco. Individual event titles link to their respective sources. Dates, prices, and availability may change; please confirm details with organizers before attending.

By DA Team – Dale Boutiette, J.D. & Alla Gershberg, MBA, Compass

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